The Still Here Method: What Comes After Survival
At some point, survival becomes its own kind of burden. You didn’t die. You didn’t vanish. You didn’
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Still Here? So Am I.
If you’ve made it this far in life, chances are you’ve been through some shit. Maybe you’ve burned bridges, buried friends, lost track of who you meant to be. Maybe you’re still standing—but barely. Still wondering how the hell you got here. Still trying to piece together something worth waking up for. If so? This space is for you.
It’s where I write the things most men never say out loud. Raw posts. Quiet regrets. The stuff I’m still sorting through, including pages from The Cottage—the memoir I never thought I’d finish.
No spam. No bullshit. Just a man, telling the truth as best he can. Trying to make sense of it—and maybe help someone else feel a little less alone.
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